Passing The Break Up Test Of Your Ex
In any chance if you still want to win back your ex, then you should succeed on these tests on break ups. Just remember that a relationship is a two-way process, and not just one. But in cases where the other takes all the advantage and the other just gives in, then it's not a good situation.
In the event when the relationship is over, the ex who does all the taking will do some break up tests to discover if he still has an effect on you. Passing this breakup test is very important in order to create a harmonious and happy relationship.
What are these breakup tests and what is the best way to pass them?
The Beck and Call Test
A situation where you are always ready when your ex needs you. This does not mean you have to be there do little things for her/him right away even if it means jeopardizing a very important thing you need to do.
If it is a serious matter of personal health or even emotional well being (the loss of a family member) that brings you back together it's one thing. Otherwise you need to let your ex learn what it means to really be without you. He or she will never do that if you are always available.
The First Ring Test
We know you imagine the phone ringing and it is him/her calling. Stop... Don't answer that phone right away. Let it ring several times before you answer it. This will create an impression on your ex that you are busy with your life without him. It is given that your ex is already a part of your life, but there are other things you need to do for yourself. Your enthusiasm in answering the phone will give a clue to your ex on how important he is still to you.
The Two-Minute Text Reply Enthusiasm
Your enthusiasm to reply to his messages will help your ex determine your eagerness and need to see and please him. This is what exes usually use worldwide. Replying to his message as soon as you receive it or within a few minutes it will create a bad image for you. Let him/her wait this time. Don't let him/her control you. You won't look good after all. A relationship should be a hand-in-hand situation - each one for each other. But if this reality is not clear when you are not together, then it will not be good either if ever you get back together.
Passing this break up test is very useful for you and your ex. This will help you determine the kind of relationship you want and be able to maintain your individuality as person that deserves to be respected.
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