Little Things Men Do That Seriously Up Their Attraction
Winking (in a Good Way)
This is one area where I've done a complete'0. I used to think it was downright cheesy and used too often by guys who were anything but suave and dashing. Until I saw it done right.
When a man flashed me a perfectly effortless wink, coupled with a little half smile, it really packed a wallop! The attraction was unmistakable. It's unfortunate that not a lot of men can pull this off without looking lame, but when it works, it works well!
Your fingernails
Women aren't asking men to be the picture of perfect grooming every second of the day. However, knowing that you need to clean up for work and family functions, and knowing how, should be required training before men can date. Having said that, we also love you when you're rugged, sweaty and manly! And much of the difference depends on the occasion.
And contrary to what you may believe, you don't have to look like a Greek God either. We don't want you to hold us to model standards, so we won't do that to you. Fair is fair. However, personal hygiene counts for a lot. Major turnoffs include a forest of nose and/or ear hair, and dirty fingernails.
Hmmm, Smelling Great
The general consensus is that most women hate a dude who drenches himself in cologne. That said, having a subtle but definite man smell is irresistible. Some women (right here!) think that an all-natural guy scent is a wonderful and alluring thing. Hello, pheromones! Other than that, picking a deodorant that smells great or using just one spritz of a sexy cologne is certainly attractive.
Laugh; it really works
Look at the men who are surrounded by women? Notice anything they have in common? Right, they're full of laughter. If you're too concerned with looking cool to appreciate a good belly laugh, I hate to break it to you, but you're lame. When women hang around with guys who let their laughter explode from time to time they'll likely join in on the fun. Laugher is infectious; they won't be able to help themselves.
And you know what happens when we laugh don't you? Our brains produce tons of feel good chemicals. A woman will make an instinctive connection between a guy who can laugh and feeling good. In other words a no fail magnet.
Keeping It Cool
While, as previously mentioned, we ladies don't dig on a perpetually serious fellow, we also can't stand a guy who loses it all the time. Yes, we all have our share of life stresses that come up and there is always a temptation to freak out but a man's ability to not do that is a very sexy thing. Going nuts over trivial issues indicates serious immaturity and we're looking for a boyfriend, not a child.
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